Dating married older woman
“A man can sometimes make his girlfriend feel like more of a mommy-figure than a peer,” Ludwig says.
In some cases, the guy is just drawn to a woman who takes care of him, but beware that some men may be true gold diggers looking for a free ride or to be taken care of financially, she adds.
drinking, flirting with women, and behaving like a frat boy may be the norm.
So don’t be surprised if he chooses hanging with his bros over coming over to your place more often than you’d hope he would.
Women in their mid-20s to early 30s are prime for baby-making, but “younger men don’t have the ‘dad” gene in them until they get to be more established and mature,” says New York City-based matchmaker Janis Spindel.
Be selective about your battles and learn to compromise on things that aren’t vital to your relationship, she recommends.
If a lot of your guy’s friends are like him—young and single—going out to bars until 4 a.m.
So if you want kids, it could be several years until your youthful partner is ready to face the reality of raising one.
The chemistry is there and you’re on the same page about many things, but often your careers will be at different stages, which could lead to resentment, says Amber Soletti, founder of On Speed and Singleandthe